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		<title>Comment on About by Jaimie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaimie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 21:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good afternoon, 

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Thanks so much and I look forward to hearing from you. 

Jaimie Christmas</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good afternoon, </p>
<p>I’ve just spent some time visiting your web site and browsing through your posts.  I found them very interesting and informative, and I believe that we have some articles that would be of benefit to your readers.  </p>
<p>Our editors have written articles offering advice on essay writing, how to conquer writer’s block, tips to stay awake when writing, how to use proper punctuation, and common mistakes to avoid in writing. Our editors can write an original article exclusively for your web site in exchange for a link to us on your website. </p>
<p>Please feel free to take a look at our web site and let me know what you think and if you’d be interested in having us write an article for your site. Or go ahead and link directly to us now. I can be reached at 1.519.351.1626 or through email at <a href="mailto:jaimie.christmas@scribendi.com">jaimie.christmas@scribendi.com</a>. </p>
<p>Thanks so much and I look forward to hearing from you. </p>
<p>Jaimie Christmas</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by vanessagrant</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanessagrant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, Fergal

You can email me at Vanessa at vanessagrant dot com
Have a good day.
Vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, Fergal</p>
<p>You can email me at Vanessa at vanessagrant dot com<br />
Have a good day.<br />
Vanessa</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by vanessagrant</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanessagrant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:34:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re absolutely right!

Thanks for catching my error. You&#039;ve got a good eye. The interesting thing is that Writing Romance is in its third edition and you&#039;re the first person to point out that error.  Good catch. I&#039;ve made a note in my revision file to fix it if we go into a fourth edition.

Good luck with your writing.

Vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re absolutely right!</p>
<p>Thanks for catching my error. You&#8217;ve got a good eye. The interesting thing is that Writing Romance is in its third edition and you&#8217;re the first person to point out that error.  Good catch. I&#8217;ve made a note in my revision file to fix it if we go into a fourth edition.</p>
<p>Good luck with your writing.</p>
<p>Vanessa</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 13:53:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there! I am enjoying your book &quot;writing romance.&quot; I&#039;m finding it very helpful. However, I wanted to let you know that Charlotte Bronte did not write Wuthering Heights. It was Emily. Charlotte wrote Jane Eyre.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there! I am enjoying your book &#8220;writing romance.&#8221; I&#8217;m finding it very helpful. However, I wanted to let you know that Charlotte Bronte did not write Wuthering Heights. It was Emily. Charlotte wrote Jane Eyre.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by Fergal O'Moore</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fergal O'Moore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 08:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Vanessa, I would like to discuss a new distribution platform that I think you will find interesting. What is the most appropriate way to connect with you to discuss? Thank you, Fergal</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Vanessa, I would like to discuss a new distribution platform that I think you will find interesting. What is the most appropriate way to connect with you to discuss? Thank you, Fergal</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by vanessagrant</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanessagrant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 20:12:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, John. It&#039;s always rewarding to hear from other writers :).

I wish you the best of luck with Fortune Cookies - I like that title! 

Keep me posted

Vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, John. It&#8217;s always rewarding to hear from other writers <img src='http://vanessagrant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
<p>I wish you the best of luck with Fortune Cookies &#8211; I like that title! </p>
<p>Keep me posted</p>
<p>Vanessa</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by john patterson</title>
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		<dc:creator>john patterson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 17:59:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve just been reading your &quot;Writing Romance&quot;. I&#039;m very pleased that my first effort at the romantic novel has many of the elements you recommend.
I look forward to your book being very helpful as I continue to chronicle the lives of the characters in &quot;Fortune Cookies&quot;
Many thanks for your help!
John Patterson</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just been reading your &#8220;Writing Romance&#8221;. I&#8217;m very pleased that my first effort at the romantic novel has many of the elements you recommend.<br />
I look forward to your book being very helpful as I continue to chronicle the lives of the characters in &#8220;Fortune Cookies&#8221;<br />
Many thanks for your help!<br />
John Patterson</p>
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		<title>Comment on Taking a hit &#8211; a writer&#8217;s toolkit for rejection by vanessagrant</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanessagrant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 22:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, thank you for some excellent observations on the subject of rejection. You&#039;re right, it&#039;s unreasonable for our creations to be instantly judged as failure or success. Great example of Moby Dick!

When I think rationally about rejection of an artistic work - book, song, painting, or any other creation - I like to use my own responses to the bestseller list as an example of why we shouldn&#039;t take to heart  the  judgment of one editor or critic. When I browse the top 10 books in a bookstore, I frequently have little interest in more than one or two of them. Sometimes there&#039;s nothing I want to read in the list at all. Every person has individual tastes, and editors and critics are people. Their individual preferences strongly influence their acceptance or rejection. 

The process of creation is, as you say, a solitary one and most writers I know are prone to vulnerable feelings when their work is judged. It&#039;s very affirming for writers to read reminders like yours that failure and success are labels that we shouldn&#039;t take too seriously.

Thanks for dropping in to share your thoughts.
Vanessa

And really, why does a creation have to be first, or even fiftieth? As a writer, I know that what I want is for people to read my work and feel the time was well spent. Not all people or even most. Some people, and if it&#039;s enough people to allow me to continue writing, then I&#039;m more than happy. If, like Moby Dick, the sales come much later - well, that&#039;s Ok too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, thank you for some excellent observations on the subject of rejection. You&#8217;re right, it&#8217;s unreasonable for our creations to be instantly judged as failure or success. Great example of Moby Dick!</p>
<p>When I think rationally about rejection of an artistic work &#8211; book, song, painting, or any other creation &#8211; I like to use my own responses to the bestseller list as an example of why we shouldn&#8217;t take to heart  the  judgment of one editor or critic. When I browse the top 10 books in a bookstore, I frequently have little interest in more than one or two of them. Sometimes there&#8217;s nothing I want to read in the list at all. Every person has individual tastes, and editors and critics are people. Their individual preferences strongly influence their acceptance or rejection. </p>
<p>The process of creation is, as you say, a solitary one and most writers I know are prone to vulnerable feelings when their work is judged. It&#8217;s very affirming for writers to read reminders like yours that failure and success are labels that we shouldn&#8217;t take too seriously.</p>
<p>Thanks for dropping in to share your thoughts.<br />
Vanessa</p>
<p>And really, why does a creation have to be first, or even fiftieth? As a writer, I know that what I want is for people to read my work and feel the time was well spent. Not all people or even most. Some people, and if it&#8217;s enough people to allow me to continue writing, then I&#8217;m more than happy. If, like Moby Dick, the sales come much later &#8211; well, that&#8217;s Ok too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Taking a hit &#8211; a writer&#8217;s toolkit for rejection by John Mayzel</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Mayzel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 22:23:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Vanessa:

On the subject of rejection, it is well to remember that Moby Dick, arguably the greatest American novel written thus far, sold only 3000 (or so) copies in Herman Melville&#039;s lifetime!

The point of the matter is that if you can write a great novel, sooner or later the value of your work may be discovered - even if you do not live to see it. And when it is finished, you will always have the personal satisfaction of having done it. 

There are many unsung heros and heroines amonst us, in fiction as in life. The author, not unlike any other person, is always alone in the laboratory (or the labyrinth) of his own mind. He or she may or may not find companions, or readers, to share ideas and musings with; and that&#039;s OK, too. It is in that sense, however, that all creative persons are very much alone and fearful of rejection.

Why must everything we do be instantly judged as a failure or a success, when nothing is necessarily one or the other?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Vanessa:</p>
<p>On the subject of rejection, it is well to remember that Moby Dick, arguably the greatest American novel written thus far, sold only 3000 (or so) copies in Herman Melville&#8217;s lifetime!</p>
<p>The point of the matter is that if you can write a great novel, sooner or later the value of your work may be discovered &#8211; even if you do not live to see it. And when it is finished, you will always have the personal satisfaction of having done it. </p>
<p>There are many unsung heros and heroines amonst us, in fiction as in life. The author, not unlike any other person, is always alone in the laboratory (or the labyrinth) of his own mind. He or she may or may not find companions, or readers, to share ideas and musings with; and that&#8217;s OK, too. It is in that sense, however, that all creative persons are very much alone and fearful of rejection.</p>
<p>Why must everything we do be instantly judged as a failure or a success, when nothing is necessarily one or the other?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Giving thanks for breakdowns&#8230; by Vanessa Grant</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanessa Grant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 18:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rainy, windy morning in Sioux Lookout - it reminds me of BC&#039;s north coast! 

My hero husband has finished the repairs and our road trip will continue tomorrow. We&#039;ve enjoyed our stay here - what a treat! Will be trying a local restaurant with an excellent reputation tonight :)

Vanessa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rainy, windy morning in Sioux Lookout &#8211; it reminds me of BC&#8217;s north coast! </p>
<p>My hero husband has finished the repairs and our road trip will continue tomorrow. We&#8217;ve enjoyed our stay here &#8211; what a treat! Will be trying a local restaurant with an excellent reputation tonight <img src='http://vanessagrant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Vanessa</p>
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